Have you found the right person with whom you wish to lose your virginity? But, are you feeling concerned and uncomfortable since you don’t know how it will be? If this is the case, you need not worry since we have compiled some tips on preparing for your first time below.
Here’s How to Prepare for the First-Time
Have Open Conversation with Your Partner
You need to talk to your partner about your concerns, especially your boundaries. Having proper communication with your partner will make you feel more comfortable when you will make out.
Take Care of Hygiene
Undoubtedly, you need to take hygienic precautions before making out. For instance, it is advisable to have a shower before having sex, and if it is your first time shaving, your pubic hair is a must to avoid any contamination. Additionally, you need to ensure your partner is also clean and well-shaved.
Take Your Time: It’s not a Race
Having sex is not a race; thus, scurrying will not help you at all. Instead, take your time to do long foreplays; this will help you become more aroused and comfortable. Allow your partner to start penetrating you slowly. If you feel pain, take a break, and start all over in a different position after some time.
Use Lots of Lube and Use a Condom
Since it will be your first time, you need to use lots of lube to ease the penetration process. Moreover, you need not forget about using a condom for the first time.
Not Every Woman Bleed or Feel Pain or Get an Orgasm for the First Time
Lastly, you need to understand not every woman feels pain or bleed at their first penetration. It all depends on the vaginal path and the position. Additionally, you need to set realistic goals on performance and climaxing. It is very common for women not to climax for the first time.
